Hi! This is Tamal. I logged into Shaadi.com in Feb'07. On the third day I logged in to see who is online now, by fixing my criteria. Six girls were online at that time as per my criteria. I clicked on the first profile after going through the profile as it looked interesting to me. My chat request was accepted from other side by Nina, from Patna. We chat for four hours on first day and I replied to some 200 questions asked by her. On second day we chat for two hours and I had four questions to clarify,which I got clarified. Then we decided to see each other in front before taking the final decision. As I am from Kolkata and she is from Patna, I decided to visit Patna in the same weekend. We met at Patna and had some discussions and principally agreed to marry. Subsequently we conveyed the information to our parents. Accordingly, it progressed and now everything is finalised. It took little time because, I had a very strict condition that there can not be any kind of transactions amongst the two families, by cash or kind. Only mandatory requirements for a social marriage can be exchanged. Everything is finalised now and the date is fixed on 20th June 2007. Now we do not chat through net but through mobile phones.