My parent had a single dream, to have a single child may a boy or a girl(could not have afforded 2 children then) and to educate him/her so that the future generation becomes educated which many village people are deprived of(a farmer son becomes a farmer, a plumber son becomes plumber, and the poverty line just goes on for generation). But I am being gifted with the education from a poverty line, only because of my parent dream and all the labour work they put in to make me live this beautiful life. I am currently working in USA under work permit visa. I know what is meant to be loved and cared, so I do like to take care of destitute children and underprivileged people via cash or kind. Neither me nor my parents need any cash or gift from girl's family. A girl leaving her parent house and will eventually do everything for the sake of my family, both parent witnessing bidai of their precious daughter, what else one can demand. Its certainly not a deal but two dil(heart) meet. If the... more girl continues her job, she is all free to spend her income on her brother , sister or parent just like i do for my family. All i need and want to give is the honest bond of love, respect, good deeds, trust, support, understanding, freedom to each other and both family members.Although there is a generation gap between parent and current lifestyle, my parent understand the modern life and always favour girl's freedom. Just like i eat,travel,wear clothes, sleep, wake up as per my liking, wish, comfort,timing the girl too will always have that same level of freedom what I have in my home. I and my maa baba too will take utmost guidance and care enough always so that the girl feel herself homely and daughter of the family. With passing age, all needs care, attention, love and presence. Hence would always love to see the girl parents visiting their daughter new home and spending happy time with us together. We as a family need to take care none of our action is hurting anybody and we aren't doing anything unethical. Rest, life will be on track with almighty's and elder's blessing. In true sense, i am expecting only her companion and the basics that keeps the relations ongoing on a happy and peaceful note while living together as a single family. What we expect from her, my family will try to share the same bond and feeling, and give the same respect to her and her family.