My parent had a vision then, to have a single child may be a boy or a girl(could not have afforded 2 children then) and to educate him/her so the upcoming generation acquire literacy academically, become conversant. Because of their relentless hard work for years, I am what I am today living this blissful life. That knowledge of the subject and comprehension of the life struggle and values is a gift to my living standard. They well nurtured and nourished me through thick and thin. Presently, I am in USA under H1 B temporary work permit visa. As long as my 5 senses are working and I am not handicapped, I am happy with what I have and I can achieve the rest with hard work and determination. I feel what is meant to be loved and cared, so I do like to take care of destitute children, underprivileged and needy via cash or kind. Neither me nor my parents need any cash or gift from girl's family. A girl leaving her home and treating mine as her home and family, what else to ask for. It... more cannot be a deal but Dil accepting each other as they are. If the girl continues her job which I would like to, she will be entitled to spend her income on her brother, sister, parent and of course herself, just like i do for my family. All I am expecting and willing to exchange is the honest bond of love, deep respect, good deeds, trust, support, understanding, freedom to each other and both family members. My parent are liberal in thought, perception and speak in favor of girl's freedom. Just as I work, follows my passion, eat,travel,dress up, sleep, wake up as per my liking, fondness, wish, and timing , the girl too will and always receive the same comfort, ease and freedom. Not by judging but by complimenting, me maa baba would confer utmost attention, guidance, care , domestic help to make the girl feel homely and daughter of the family always. With passing age, immunity decreases and parent only expect children presence and happiness . Thus, it would be a blessing if girl's parent join us at their daughter new home and be and live with us spending happy time together. We as a family just have to be cautious none of our behavior is hurting anyone belief or sentiments and we aren't engaged in any unethical act. Rest, the voyage of life will be on track with Almighty's and elders blessing. In true essence, I am expecting our companionship inspires us to become better human being personally and professionally than what we are now and we are able to make each other and both families feel proud while staying together united , happily and peacefully. What we look forward to from the girl, me and my family will try to share the same mutual bond, feeling, reverence to her and her family. Marriage would be finalized with acceptance at four level (girl, boy, girl parent, boy parent).